Quiet Kind of Reads: Before the Coffee Gets Cold

Quiet Kind of Reads: Before the Coffee Gets Cold

Toshikazu Kawaguchi adapted this slim novel from a play, and I can envision it unrolling just as wonderful on the stage as on these pages. Kawaguchi takes a sci-fi idea and makes it commonplace - in this particular cafe, in one particular seat, one can visit the past.

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“Live up to the bravery you find inside you” - Solo Female Travel and Street Harassment

“Live up to the bravery you find inside you” - Solo Female Travel and Street Harassment

In today’s world, travel can be scary – even more so if you’re a solo female traveler. Be smart, be informed, be precautious, be nervous – but go anyway.

Soak it in. Bring back what you learn. Grow in ways you didn’t think you could. Demand the world acknowledge you as a full human being despite any differences you may have from the status quo. Live up to the bravery you find inside you.

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Durham - A Love Affair in Coffee Cups

Durham - A Love Affair in Coffee Cups

It was meant to be temporary. I was not meant to get attached. Three years in the deep(er) south for school, and then my Yankee patootie could scramble back up north. I really just needed a rental apartment and a good coffee shop to make that work.

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Quiet Kind of Reads: Sing, Unburied, Sing

Quiet Kind of Reads: Sing, Unburied, Sing

“Even if he didn’t carry the scent of leaves disintegrating to mud at the bottom of a river, the aroma of the bowl of bayou, heavy with water and sediment and the skeletons of small dead creatures, drab, fish, snakes, and shrimp, I would still know he is River’s by the look of him.”

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Quiet Kind of Reads: The Ghost Map

Quiet Kind of Reads: The Ghost Map

“You and I may not live to see the day, and my name may be forgotten when it comes; but the time will arrive when great outbreaks of cholera will be a thing of the past; and it is the knowledge of the way in which the disease is propagated which will cause them to disappear.” John Snow.

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3 Days, 2 States, and a Hatchback

3 Days, 2 States, and a Hatchback

Ask 10 different people and you will probably get 10 different answers as to what states of America can be considered part of the American Midwest. As a lifelong East Coaster, I considered Ohio the gateway to the Midwest and with a not so eloquent segue, where my most recent trip occurred.

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Five Organizations to Support on International Women’s Day and Beyond (Because We Actually Exist Those Other 364 Days As Well)

Stop Street Harassment

How many times have you been catcalled? Wolf-whistled? Followed? Assaulted in public? Street harassment is part of a spectrum of gender-based violence that makes public spaces considerably less safe for women and minorities, especially those with disabilities, trans and LGBTQIAA+ folk, and religious and ethnic minorities. Stop Street Harassment is dedicated to collecting robust data on sexual harassment, sharing stories, supporting local groups to change gendered norms, and provides the only street harassment support hotline. Learn more here and support them here.

 

Curamericas Global

A vast majority of maternal deaths are entirely preventable. Curamericas hopes to eliminate maternal and child deaths by providing safe birthing centers, nutritional support, and more. They are rigorously evidence-based and dedicated to projects that are ultimately self-sustaining and community-driven – the white savior complex prevalent in so many international development orgs doesn’t fly here. Learn more about their work here, and consider joining or donating to their big annual fundraiser, a “Mom-A-Thon” that requires no actual running but is a “race to save lives.”

 

Your alma mater’s survivor support and/or GBV prevention center 

The landscape of gender-based violence resources and support on university campuses has changed drastically over the past ten years, and with MeToo, Devos’ proposed hacking of Title IX, and general budget cuts in education your university’s center could probably use some support. Consider donating time or money, or if you feel strongly about the matter use your clout as an alumnus to write a letter to the school’s newspaper or contact campus administrators explaining why supporting survivors and prevention efforts is so important to you. My University of Mary Washington fam can support the Center for Prevention and Education on Giving Day here, while #MasonNation can learn more about the Student Support and Advocacy Center (SSAC) here. A quick search of your uni’s website should provide you with details for your particular college; if not, that’s another issue to raise with campus leaders!

 

One Love Foundation

Prevention and education materials for students tends to be a bit dated…or condescending…or just hard to relate to. The One Love Foundation is dedicated to producing high-quality, relevant, and FREE materials aimed at promoting healthy relationships among college students. Having worked with them in the past, I really can’t say enough about them. They also support One Love Clubs on college campuses across the nation, which seek especially to involve college athletes in relationship education. Learn all about them here.

 

The Abortion Access Front

Abortion AF (formerly Lady Parts Justice League) describes themselves as “Habitat for Humanity for Abortion Clinics” – basically, they visit clinics around the country volunteering time to spruce up centers and basically make sure the employees, volunteers, and patients feel loved. They also provide daily updates about reproductive health issues and host pretty awesome events like comedy shows to raise money for reproductive health access. Donate herevolunteer herejoin the newsletter here, and learn more about them here.

Making That Travel-Writing Side Hustle Pay-Off

Making That Travel-Writing Side Hustle Pay-Off

I don't write for the money. Not necessarily by choice - if I could rake in the dough just by writing I would certainly do so, and I am working my tail off to head in that direction. But let's be honest: at the moment the amount I make from writing barely covers my coffee tab.

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Returning to Canterbury

Returning to Canterbury

Canterbury, Kent first captured my imagination in 2012, when I visited as part of a study abroad program. We visited from London, and it was the first site that really reached out to me. Fast-forward eight years, and I feel much the same way.

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